Marriage is a partnership. You are a team. Together you can accomplish many great things that would be impossible or difficult on your own. For example my wife can now kill spiders using only words. The way this works is that she sees a spider and says “SPIDER!” and then I kill it as quickly as humanly possible. If I am not at home she will call to express to me her disappointment in not anticipating her needs and inquire if perhaps I have some sick time available so that I could leave work early.